June 28, 2008
Japan Days (3)
Posted by Jishin under life-and-death | Tags: death/dying, Japan, travel |[3] Comments
Mr I had died the previous week and today was the occasion of his seventh day memorial service. Following behind Reverend K I left my shoes in the front entrance of his family home and entered the living area through a sliding door. We were greeted by Mr I’s widow, son, daughter and two sisters. In the main alcove of the living room the butsudan was open. On a table before it was a large photograph of Mr I showing his smiling face, around it flowers and candles were carefully arranged. After exchanging greetings we began the service kneeling before the butsudan. The Shoshinge was chanted together with the nembutsu and six wasan hymns by Shinran Shonin. During the chanting we each sprinkled powdered incense into the censor. After the service was completed we bowed to the Buddha and then to each other before sitting on cushions around the low Japanese dining table to share tea and conversation.
Mr I had been a very important person for the temple. Forty years ago during its construction he had built the large wooden structure that houses the temple bell, the sound of which had resounded around the surrounding town twice each day at 7 AM and 6 PM ever since, spreading the sound of the nembutsu inscribed on its front. He had also through his carpentary skills been of invaluable help to the temple in all the intervening years, keeping its structure sound and helping with difficult expansion works.
In Jodo Shinshu it is traditional to give the deceased a Dharma-name (homyo). The name chosen for Mr I was Konryu. You can find it in the seventh line of the Shoshinge. It has the meaning of ‘establishing’, ‘building up’ or ‘bringing forth’, in the sense that Dharmakara Bodhisattva spent five kalpas of great effort in order to bring forth his Vows to establish the Pure Land or that the Pure Land was brought forth from the Buddha’s Great Compassion.
Mr I’s daughter impressed upon me how proud her father had been of the construction and pointed me to set of photos pinned to the wall showing memorable events from Mr I’s life, one of which was of him standing casually next to one of the tall wooden supports with broad smile on his face. ‘He was so proud of that bell’ his daughter told me, ‘And he loved meeting people from different cultures across the world. I live now in Switzerland. He came to visit me there and we also went on holiday to Paris together. Look there is a picture of him handgliding! He would have been so happy you visited today, he so much loved meeting people from different countries”
The day before we wondered back at the temple whether my attending today would be intrusive in the families grief and place too much emphasis on Mr I’s relationship with the temple at the expense of his family life. Reverend K had a strong feeling however that Mr I’s family would welcome my visit which to our joy they did. On my part I am glad that I could express my gratitude to them for the life of Mr I, which, through the inconceivable working of Amida Buddha, was now of such profound importance to my own. I could now begin to understand how his great effort in the building of the temple was one of the many factors which have helped bring forth and establish the gift of faith from Amida Buddha in my life.
Namuamidabutsu.